HAITI TRIP DAY 8, 9, 10, 11: Done Like Dinner…

October 20, 2011 by  
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HAITI TRIP DAY 11: Done Like Dinner…

Internet snafu the last few days as Haiti Arise experiments with going off city power (which charges absurd rates for hit and miss service) and running off the generator and custom built inverter they have. Here’s the “Coles Notes” version of the past few days:

MONDAY: Work day! And work we did… Schwackload (its an official term) of work done today. New high’s for posts and panels completed. We’re flying…

TUESDAY: Work day again. It’s a tad repetitive, but we’re having fun, working well together, and by this time we are more than comfortable with the Haitian crews we are working with. Funny how there is no language barrier for guys to make fun of each other, and compete and wrestle…

WEDNESDAY: Bunch of guys went to market in the morning to experience a different part of Haiti. By far the highlight of the day was in the early afternoon. After working like crazy the last few days, we completed the entire wall length at the back of the property where Marc has been having so much opposition. What was once a two year struggle and fight, both physically and spiritually, was finally overcome. It was a blast to watch Marc bouncing around like a kid high on birthday cake as the last panel went in to place. That section of wall: 87 sections, 870 panels, 440ft. What was once nothing is now a 10ft wall, protecting the area which will eventually become the garden. We ended having an impromptu party – one of the team members went to the “corner store” and bought drinks for everyone, Roberto (one of the Haitian workers who spent the bulk of the week with my crew on panels) put on show climbing a 50ft coconut tree in all of 60 seconds (free hand and barefoot) to knock down a bunch of coconuts for everyone to share. We spent the next five minutes trying to convince Marshall to give it a try, but no luck. It was fun to just sit around as a group of guys and laugh, chat, and “translate” as best we could with each other. By this time in the week, Roberto had started wearing high school chemistry lab goggles to work on the panels so the cement dust didn’t get in his eyes as he slid down. He looked like a goof, so naturally, took some heat from all sides.

Wednesday night, Marc and Lisa joined us for our debrief and were both overcome with the relief and joy of getting that that piece done, so that was pretty cool to be a part of. It’s been a long, tough road for them, and it’s been a redeeming week to watch things come together… finally.

THURSDAY: Last work day! And work we did… to the point that we ran them completely out of panels, and got as far as we could possibly go with posts. All that remains are two sections of wall that couldn’t be completed this week anyway. One section, they need to build a home for the family they are moving off the property for first, and the other section Marc is still trying to negotiate for a few more feet (dude guards his territory like a pitbull ). We could go no further…
… so we hit the beach! One last soak in the warm bathtub they call the ocean down here, then a last church service, followed by goodbyes. The crew of guys we had been working with all week doing the panels don’t normally come to church—they are town guys that Marc hires to help give them work. When we said our goodbyes at the end of the day today, we invited them to come and they all declined… until about halfway through the service when they sauntered in. It was fun to be able to see them a last time, and also to send them off with a bunch of work and dress clothes, gloves, and other things we could give them. One of them was a bigger dude like me, so I was able to get him some stuff. Also had my heart wrecked by a young family, but I’ll get to that at another time. Marshall gave away his guitar, we all got to say our goodbyes…

… and now bed. One last “half” sleep, then up for the ride to the airport at 430AM to catch the long ride home.

One last time, here’s the trip, By The Numbers:

- 75+ Cokes drank
- 10 fresh lobsters eaten on the beach
- 1 Swiss Frenchman suckered into buying a painting  (but it is nice, and will look great in his kid’s room!)
- 129 Sections completed
- 1290 Panels set in place
- 103,200lbs of panels lifted (and we note here: that number is actually double, as all of these panels were first lifted to be stacked for the skid steer, and then lifted again to be placed into the wall. Over 200,000lbs worth. We should the JACKED. Sadly, we are not. Just really, really really sore.)
- 653ft of completed wall set in place
- 156 posts set at 250lbs each which means…
- 35,000lbs worth of posts, which give a total material weight of…
- 138,200lbs of concrete and rebar that was not there 10 days ago. Yikes. And that’s not including the dozen or boulders dropped into the hole of each post.
- 790ft of posts in place (once they build up the panel supply to fill to finish them)
- 1 Jelly fish infested swim
- 1 Jelly fish attack
- 2 Jelly fish victims
- 1 Jelly fish victim crazy enough to pee on himself
- 1 Jelly fish victim man enough to suck it up.
- 20 holes dug wrong, that had the be redone (it was after this that we really considered using the auger attachment a bit more…)
- 4 BIG tarantulas
- 2 tarantulas inexplicably let go (so it very well could of just been two after all…)
- 0 panels left

- 2 beyond blessed and encouraged missionaries.

Time to come home…

HAITI TRIP DAY 6 & 7: Watch Out For the Jellies, Maaaan!

October 16, 2011 by  
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No internet connection last night so here’s the recap for the last few days:

 

Recovery.  Ahhh…..

 

Saturday morning we rocked it.  The Haitian crews only work until 2 oclock, so “we” made the executive decision to work through till then as well to get as much done as possible.  This was not an overly popular decision, but everyone sucked it up and we powered through.

 

20 sections completed.

 

Running tally:

51 sections complete, 66 holes dug.

 

By early afternoon the panels we’re getting suuuuper heavy lifting them above our heads.  Each section takes 10 panels to fill.  That’s 10 80 lbs panels handed up the scaffolding and down.  The guys below lift them up, Jason and I grab ‘em, lift ‘em, and lower ‘em.  According to the math (and yes, I used a calculator) we’ve lifted 40,800lbs.

 

Ain’t nothin’ but a thang.

 

With 51 sections done, the goal this week is to match that before we leave.  This would mean we could finish the section of wall that has been giving Haiti Arise the most grief, and also cross another section that would enclose their area a little more in another direction.

 

It doesn’t look like it will get completely finished tho, so the word is going out officially tomorrow:  They are looking for another wall building team for November 20 – December 3 to finish it off, and start the homes for the people they are moving off of the children’s village property.  Anyone interested?  Marc figures he can convince Russ to send me back if we can get another crew :)

 

Saturday afternoon we we’re spent.  After lunch, we headed to the beach at Taino with the whole team, and Marc and Lisa as well.  Fresh lobster and cokes on a gorgeous calm ocean beach is a beautiful thing.  Was fun to spend some time with other team members from other places, and get to visit.

 

After a wonderful sleep Saturday night, we had church Sunday morning (always an experience).  Was able to share a warm “hug” from Cornerstone with them (and found out I will be preaching Tuesday night.).

 

Speaking of church – was thinking much of you at Cornerstone this morning, and wanted to share with you a simple way in which God has continued to care and guide us as a team, and a congregation in our relationship with Haiti Arise.  During our time here, a few issues came up supplies wise for the wall that needed to be purchased.  I had mentioned to Marc when I got here that if need be we could round up some funds.  When the call went out, family members of team people stepped up huge and covered a large chunk.  But when I contacted T&F back home at Cornerstone, they told me the cheque from when Marc and Lisa were at Cornerstone – the one designated for the wall and village – was on the way.  Those funds will help go a long way to finishing the wall off.

 

And so, I wanted to thank you as a church for your faithfulness and obedience in giving to make a difference.  It was neat answer to prayer, and affirmation of what we are doing.

 

Sunday afternoon after church, Marc and Lisa arranged to take us to another beach, and to a “restaurant” (I use the quotations simply to point out that “beachfront hotel restaurant” in Haiti isn’t even in the same stratosphere as a beachfront hotel back home, even if the beachfront hotel was in LaRonge) for supper.

 

We piled into the van and drove out to a beautiful black sand beach with a little island that was a sort swim away.  Just for fun we decided to swim to the island.

 

About halfway across, a few of us got aquainted with some jellyfish.  They are not nice, and I don’t recommend it.  On the bright side, an unnamed team member did get to experiment with the theory of peeing on yourself to relieve the sting (and yes, it worked).

 

We figured it was just one vengeful jellyfish, and thought nothing of it as we enjoyed our time on the island.  Then we decided to swim back.

 

And then we saw the jellies everywhere. Neeeeeeemo!!!!!

 

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For the record, Nemo’s dad is correct.  The tops do not hurt.  The bottoms do.  After a few attempts that were turned back we decided to brave it.  It’s scary business swimming hard knowing they are there.  Even more so when you are touching the tops of them repeatedly as you swim back.  This was no so relaxing.

 

Back on the beach we just hung out for the rest of the afternoon, with a perfect sunset.  Supper was fun – an experience to be sure!  After initially forgetting my lobster order, they rushed it – meaning it was still half frozen from coming out of the freezer – however the fried plantains and fresh passion fruit juice more than made up for it.

 

I got to sit with Marc and Lisa, and on the way home we actually stopped at their home and got a chance to see where they live.  By far one of my favorite parts of this trip has been the amount of relaxed time I have had to spend with them.  More shoulder to shoulder time, and it’s been fun.

 

Quick sleep tonight, then back at it 630am for devos, breakfast and out to work.  Just pray that all that wonderful local food (including the spaghetti and hot dogs one person ordered) stays where it should tomorrow as we’re working…

HAITI TRIP DAY 5: The Ups and Downs…

October 14, 2011 by  
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Busy day today! The morning started with good and bad news: On the good side, Marc’s conversation with the families last night went well, and we were back on track. On the not so good side, the lines marked out for us when we got here we’re measured from the wrong point. Meaning those 24 holes the one crew of guys dug over the past day? Good for decoration… not so useful for planting poles.

Super. Not back on track.

Mitchell was not overly happy. Nor Steve. Or Jeremy. Might have been something to do with the fact that they had dug those holes…

But one of Marc’s many gifts is his ability to dispel the stress and frustration of a situation with a friendly, loving, warm response. He sent the skid steer driver out during lunch break to redig the holes, and welcomed Mitchell back with a big hug and a laugh. It was pretty cool to watch the stress just get squeezed out.

And just like that, back on track! Made our goal for the day: Every sections ready for wall panels got filled (12) and we got 20 posts sunk and ready for tomorrow. The Haitian crews took finished their work day at 4, but our guys kept at it for another 90 minutes and got all set up for the morning. They we’re champs today. It’s been fun to watch the three work crews develop some systems and routines. Guys who just met a few days ago are working great together, and because we’re heading out to the same sites each morning, we are getting to work with the same Haitians each day. Which has been a blast. Marshall has lovingly become “Big Marcel”, and we’ve mocked one of them mercilessly for humming a few Justin Bieber lines. And apparently my Creole is terrible (I knew this already, but then enjoy reminding me… regularly.) I’m hanging in there with the shattered French tho… I refuse to revert to the “slower and louder” technique!

Prayer Requests: One of the team members from Medicine Hat, Bruce, was out for the day with some heat stroke. Rough afternoon for him, and it’s a bit disappointing for a guy who spent months and hours learning basic Creole so he could communicate. Also, for the aching bodies. The morning routine for everyone is getting a bit longer as they try and work out the kinks!

It is now 9PM and bedtime. Crazy. But sooooooo looking forward to it…

HAITI WALL TRIP DAY 4: Where’s The Pole?!?

October 13, 2011 by  
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There’s an old episode of “Wipeout!” where a young lady is flying through the course, across the big red balls, and nothing seems to be in her way… until she reaches the top of the platform and can’t find the pole she is supposed to jump, and if left standing there yelling “where’s the pole!?” while it stares her square in the face.

I thought of her a lot today. Everywhere I looked there was a pole going in somewhere. At one point in the afternoon, it was so hot and I was so tired other people started looking like poles. We’ve essentially formed three teams: 1 team doing the advance work: Digging holes (and dropping and cementing some posts as well). The second team spent the entire day dropping posts (got another 12 finished), while the third team is up on the scaffolding (yes Tyson, it’s real now! Not just 2x4s propped against the wall!) dropping the panels. We finished 17 full panels—at 5ft each, a now completed 135ft of wall, and it looks great.

For those of you having a hard time picturing how the wall works, or what all is involved:

Step 1: Hand dig a hole mimimum 3ft deep, roughly 2ft wide.
Step 2: Drop premade concrete pillar into said hole (it takes at least 4 grown men to move one of these pillars. 5 if I’m one of the men. These things are heavy.)
Step 3: Drop large rocks into said hole to brace and help level pillar (either hunt for rocks and carry them over, or hope the skid steer blesses you with a well timed load of rocks.)
Step 4: Make sure pillar is level, dump premade (by other team members) concrete into hole from pile left by the ever-gracious skid steer (or “bobcat” for the less mechanically inclined). Really make sure it is level.
Step 5: R Place 2×4 spacers in between the newly planted pillar (in the grooves—these grooves come in handy down the road) and the one on the end from the previous day (after the first one, they can go to each other), then ratchet-strap them together so that the pillars stay the right distance apart and unmoved while they set. Really really make sure it is level.
Step 6: Repeat 5ft down the line.

Once out of pillars, let stand and cool for 24 hours. “Sauce” should thicken, and voila! Pillars! But you are not done 

Step 7: Stack wall panels in stacks of 9(ish), 3 stacks wide for skid steer to pick up and bring (see why we love the skid steer so much?)
Step 8: Set up scaffolding by now unstrapped and firmly cured pillars. 2 dudes up on scaffolding, 2 dudes passing panels up the scaffolding.
Step 9: 5ft x 1ft Panel goes up (and it’s solid concrete) on scaffold, then slides down from top in the two grooves on the sides of the pillars on either side. 2 more dudes grab it from the scaffold dudes on the other side (while the second 2 dudes collect the next panel) and drop it to the ground (confused yet?) Level that first panel off at the bottom.
Step 10: Repeat 9-10 more times depending on height of wall in that spot.

Annnnnd, presto!

You have now completed one wall panel. 5ft. Rinse and repeat as necessary.

By the end of Saturday, the goal is to have, at minimum, another 100ft done there, and an additional 135ft (17 sections) done on the “problem” piece.

Which brings us to the problem piece: We are here on rush assignment to finish this wall as quickly as possible because of some issues Marc and Haiti Arise have been having with the placement of the wall (even though it is on their property). That hasn’t totally gone away. Marc was meeting with some people this evening, but it is pressing to get a specific piece done as much as possible. A lot harder to make a stink about a wall already in place than to meddle with markings and stringline! Pray for Marc as he meet with the families, and that we would be able to make good progress over the next few days to help them get past the hurdle that continues to be the burr in the shoe, so to speak.

Beyond that, we’re exhausted, sore, but having fun and enjoying working together. Bedtime is a welcome end to the day! Which is where I’m off to now…

HAITI WALL TRIP DAY 3: You know that thing about digging your way out of a hole?

October 12, 2011 by  
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It is sooooo bed time.  Hard to believe we are already wrapping up day three.  Let’s try and recap the last two days, shall we?

 

MONDAY, October 10

Travel day!  Those are always fun.  Pretty uneventful day.  Smooth sailing from Saskatoon to Toronto, where we we’re a bit delayed before making our way on to Miami for night.  Got checked in to the airport hotel, then all seven of us: Stephen Thiessen, Joe Harms, Jay VanBinsbergen, Jeremy Patkau, Steve Eymann, Mitchell Janzen, and Marshall Heppner- hopped in a cab and headed for Bayside, the downtown waterfront area of Miami to have supper together.  Good chance for guys to get to know each other a bit, and rest together before really getting things going.  Cab ride back to hotel, into bed for an early AM wake up to head through security.  Easy day done!

 

TUESDAY, October 11

Up early!  Met up with a few of the other guys coming down to work: one from Surrey, BC (Surrey Alliance), one from Red Deer, AB (Crossroads), and a team of people from Medicine Hat, AB (The Link church), including 4 guys, and 3 ladies who had previously been planning to come.  Also on the plane: A couple from Moose Jaw, SK who will be staying at team hosts and coordinators here in Haiti till Christmas, Marc and Lisa and their kids on their way back from summer holidays, and a looooot of other people.

Once on the ground, we got “organized” (it’s immigration procedures in Haiti.  ”Organized” is not part of the vocabulary), through customs, into the trucks and off.  No problems or issues… till we got to the compound and realized three bags with alllll of Marc and Lisa’s kids clothing and gear were missing.  (Thankfully, God graciously allowed us to be absent minded while still in the terminal, and after a long drive back, the bags were right there waiting).

The drive through Port-au-Prince was fascinating.  For those going through for the first time is was a shock, as usual.  For some of us, it was the first exposure to a 4th world environment.  For me, it was strangely encouraging.  Still miles to go, but a ton of rubble had been cleared, saw a few municipal trucks trying to work on power line, a small crane replacing some items, even some new sidewalks being poured, and some roads repaired.  The bridge outside Grand Goave, which had previously been ruined (forcing us to drive through the riverbed) was functional again.  Signs of some progress however small (some memorable buildings were still in shambles, including one house that is almost completely on it’s side post-earthquake).

The presidential palace, however, is still seemingly untouched.  It’s much more startling in person then in pictures, and sobering reminder that it is still a deeply wounded city and and country, in infrastructure and beyond.

Got settled on the compound:  Technical school has the footings completed, and a team is coming in the early new year to do the next phase.  Medical clinic is coming together as well, and the “temporary” school added a few new rooms (and another 100 students!)

Off to bed, with a 6.30 start coming in the AM…

 

WEDNESDAY, October 12

Kidding!  Make that 5.30AM!  Big shout out to Marshall for getting his time zones confused, and graciously waking us up at “6.20″, just in time for us to all get up, head down for group devotions…. and be told it’s 5.30.  This, naturally, resulted in Saskatchewan jokes the rest of the day.  And another hour of sleep.  Win some, lose some.

After rebooting an hour later, it was a slow start to the day.  It’s the first day back for Marc and Lisa as well, so literally everything is ramping up.  By lunch, guys were frustrated, doing lots of leaning on shovels, and digging a few holes.  We had one pillar in for the wall (the wall is built with a pillar every 5ft, then panels that slide down grooves between the pillars) by the break.  Not great.

Afternoon, however, different story!  We kicked it in to high gear and got going.  Here’s the day “By the Numbers”:

17 Posts set
1 Tarantula killed
1 Cow patty stepped in
180 panels stacked and ready to rock
32 Holes dug

And 1 sandal destroyed, resulting in me walking back from the beach barefoot (and grateful it was pitch black, so I couldn’t see what was squishing under my feet).

 

Progress is being made!  two full sides and the main gate are now in–pray that we can finish the back piece in some denser jungle, which is were they have been having the most difficulty with the mayor and such.  On a positive note, Marc and Lisa have had a chance to show to conceptual video to some of those who were opposed, and it made a big difference, and gained some new supporters.

 

Pray for energy tomorrow… our collection of farm boys tried to work farm boy speed today… and got their butts kicked by the heat and humidity.  Pacing is a good lesson, and heat headaches are an unfriendly teacher!

IMPORTANT DATES FOR JNR and SNR HI

October 12, 2011 by  
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Here are some important dates! We will let you know if anything changes!

SNR HI SCHEDULE:

SEPTEMBER 2011

9-11… SNR HI Kadesh Retreat

15… Midweek Kickoff

22… Sunday AM Start-Up

 

 OCTOBER 2011

 

9… NO Sunday AM

13… Small Groups

20… KGB Wide Game

27… Social Justice Night

 

NOVEMBER 2011

10… Small Groups

17… Operation Shoebox

24… Special Guest Speaker

 

DECEMBER 2011

1… Christmas Reflective

8… Small Groups

15… Social Justice Night

17… FARMily Christmas Party

 

SUNDAY AM AND MIDWEEK CHRISTMAS BREAK

RUNS FROM DEC 23-JAN 4

 

JANUARY 2012

5… Midweek ReBoot

12… Small groups

19… Study Party

26… Social Justice Night

 

FEBRUARY 2012

9… Small Groups

16… Gladiator Night

22-26…Panorama Ski Trip (Tentative)

23… Social Justice

 

MARCH 2012

8… Small Groups

22… Social Justice night

 

APRIL 2012

5… Easter Reflective

12… Small Groups

26… Social Justice Night

 

MAY 2012

10… Small Groups

24… Social Justice Night

25-27… YC Alberta

 

JUNE 2012

7… Small Groups

21… Social Justice

26… WRAP – UP

 

JNR HI SCHEDULE: 

SEPTEMBER 2011

8… Kick-off Night

22… Small Groups

 

OCTOBER 2011

9… NO Sunday AM

13… KGB Wide Game

20… Small Groups

27… Trick or Eat Food Drive

 

NOVEMBER 2011

17… Small Groups

 

DECEMBER 2011

15… Christmas Party

22… Small Groups

 

SUNDAY AM AND MIDWEEK CHRISTMAS BREAK

RUNS FROM DEC 23-JAN 4

 

JANUARY 2012

5… Midweek Reboot

19… Small Groups

 

FEBRUARY 2012

2… Tie-dye Night!

9… Gladiator Night!

16… Small Groups

 

MARCH 2012

15… Small Groups

 

APRIL 2012

19… Small Groups

26… Pool Party Night!/Wrap – up

To Haiti And Back Again…

October 9, 2011 by  
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Tomorrow morning I take off back to Haiti with a crew of men, some from Cornerstone, and some from abroad.  We are going to build a wall.  Not because we are exceptionally good or experienced at wall building, or because we were best people available.  We are going because we can.  When the first word came that Haiti Arise needed people to come help finish the wall, I said to myself “I could do something like that”.  If all they needed were a few men to come down for 10 days and work hard… I could qualify for that right?  At least for 7 out of 10 hard working days, and that’s still something!

It’s definitely not convenient.  I’m in the middle of a few classes, and trying desperately to get homework finished and submitted, and my sister-in-law’s wedding is the weekend the Haiti trip ends, so I get to galavant around the world in order to make it for the big day, not to mention I’m not overly excited about leaving my kid for 10 days.  If i’m being honest, I’m secretly concerned he won’t remember me when I get back.  Silly, I know, but I make most babies cry, so I’d rather not make my own do the same thing.

 

It’s definitely not easy.  I had to prepare to take holiday time, and am using money saved up for other things.  I’ve got plenty of things on the go here:  I’ll miss two of my favourite youth nights of the year (but Kurtis has those locked down–he’s a champ), Friday night hockey is just starting, and my beloved Canucks have just hit the ice for a new season, and I’ll miss all that as well.

 

All kinds of reasons not to go….  But no good ones.

 

When I sat and thought about it, especially in light of what we’ve been talking about as a church for the past 6 months, it was kind of a no-brainer.  I can go.  There is an opportunity to step in a help my brothers and sisters, who are in need.  I can help.  I can get the time.  I can pull together the resources.  I am physically able (for the most part) to do the job.  Sure, it might mean a few adjustments on my end–changes my holiday plans, and rearranges some budgeting, but nothing life-changing.

 

And that’s the catch.  Cause this wall?  It IS life changing.  For hundreds of children.

 

… so maybe there are no reasons not to go.

 

This all came up for me again when we we’re planning the Ride for Refuge bike ride.  We had an absolute blast as students doing the ride, and I was so incredibly proud of those that got up at 7.30AM on a Saturday morning to come biking in a nasty red figure skating outfit.  But I was also left wondering—what was so important that Saturday morning that we weren’t able to get 100 or more to come ride?  What was so critical that we couldn’t have more people out asking friends and co-workers to kick in $10 or $20 bucks to go towards those in need—the oppressed, vulnerable, and displaced?  I can’t express how impressed I was with a few students who changed their work schedules and gave up shifts in order to be there.  They overcame the hurdles, because they saw it as important.

 

And maybe that’s the question I’m asking.  I know that not everyone could come to Haiti .  Some of the people we approached legitimately could not get time off work.  I know not everyone could come biking.  Some legitimately had other commitments they could not break.

 

But the principle remains the same.   Are you willing and prepared to jump a few hurdles in order to do something well within your ability, even if it’s not the most easy and convenient thing, to help meet the needs of others, or do you look for signs of resistence and use them as the “out” for not doing anything?

 

It’s thanksgiving weekend.  And I, perhaps more than ever, am thankful for a God and Saviour who didn’t just take the easy way, but rather one who jumped the hurdles to rescue me.  His followers and disciples lived the same way.

 

I want to as well.  And my prayer is that as a church, this becomes our hallmark also.

SNR HI KADESH KICKOFF 2011: Registration Form

August 12, 2011 by  
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Step 1: Clink Link. It’s right here – KADESH RETREAT FORM

Step 2: Print.

Step 3: Return.

Step 4: Awesomeness, Sept 9-11

 

 

Mamas, Don’t Raise Your Boys to be Nice…

July 15, 2011 by  
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Just got home from a week out at Ranger Lake Bible Camp, where I had a chance to teach at their DIRT  CAMP, which is a week of paintball with 20 high school guys.  ”Nice” would not be a word I would use to describe the behaviour of 20 young men running around trying to shoot each other, northe condition of my person, as I returned home with 120 individual welts and bruises (I have delicate skin.).  That whole “girls dig scars” thing?  Melissa just laughed at me.  (Granted, I do look like a dalmatian.  She used the term “leper”.)

You don’t win at Paintball by playing “nice”.  Your team does not benefit by saying “you know, we did better than them last round, lets take it easy, and let them have some free shots, so they can feel included and better about themselves”.  That might actually get you shot by your teammates.

So why do we place so much emphasis on being “nice” as people?  Is the focus maybe on the wrong thing?  The two key passages we worked through during the campfire times we’re 1 Corinthians 16:13-14 and Psalm 15.  I’ll save you the time of clicking a link–here’s what they say:

1 Corinthians 16:13-14 (ESV): “Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.  Let all that you do be done in love.”

And here’s the Psalm:

Psalm 15 (ESV):

O LORD, who shall sojourn in your tent? Who shall dwell on your holy hill? 2He who walks blamelessly and does what is right and speaks truth in his heart; 3who does not slander with his tongue and does no evil to his neighbor, nor takes up a reproach against his friend; 4in whose eyes a vile person is despised, but who honors those who fear the LORD; who swears to his own hurt and does not change; 5who does not put out his money at interest and does not take a bribe against the innocent.

He who does these things shall never be moved.

 

Hmm.  That’s interesting.  Nowhere in there does it say anything about being “nice”.  Heck, even the fruit of the Spirit–love, joy, peace, patience, goodness, kindness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control–have no mention of being “nice”.

Sometimes those things may come across as being “nice”, but that is not the main root.  I am incredibly grateful that my father, in his discipline of us as children, was always gentle, patient and kind, but at no point did I ever think “wow, he was really nice there.”

Nice people don’t rock the boat.  Nice people don’t step on toes.  Nice people don’t stand up and call people to action when it might be uncomfortable.  Nice people don’t step in because they don’t want to make thing awkward.

There’s the famous CS Lewis line from the Chronicles of Narnia about how Aslan, the character representing Christ, is not safe at all, but that he is Good.  When look at the world around us, and the push for “polite, nice boys” I think of the same thing.  Safe.

As we talked with these young guys this week about what it means to be men, and to follow Christ, safety and being “nice” never came in to the discussion.  Gentleness, yes.  Kindness, yes.  Righteousness, yes.

But not playing “nice”.  Sometimes we tell our students to “play nice”.  Maybe what we should really say, is to play with integrity and honesty, and genuine care and respect for the other individual.  That can be much different than playing nice.

By that same token, as we work through what it means to follow through and live out the vision that we are talking about from the platform Sunday mornings–to engage the City of Saskatoon, and the needs and hurts of our community–it will not be accomplished by simply being “nice” people.

Just as we challenged the guys at camp, and just as I want to parent my own son now… We need to direct out focus to raising our young men (and our young women) to love justice and mercy, to be faithful, righteous, and upright.

That’s gonna take a little more work, and sometimes it won’t look very nice.  But it will be good.

YC MEDICAL FORM AND JNR HI LASERTAG

May 11, 2011 by  
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